APEX

I'm new to APEX (and PL/SQL!), but i've created an test Application (Address book type).
All is going well, with some exceptions (I'll address the other later). My question right now is, I want to enter a birthdate (1/10/1962) in my record, but I want display "Birthdays" not the "Birthdate" on my calendar.

What I mean, is, If I have the Jan 2009 calendar, I want it to see that the date above will show up. What I don't want to do, is create another row for every year that the person could have (the examples I've found in the forum seem to do this). So I then want to be able to "click" on the "name" of the person that shows up on the calendar, and display the full record. I can do this part, I just haven't figured out how to display EVERYONE that has a JAN birthday, when I have the JAN calendar.

I guess it would have to have some logic in that if the birthdate field is "1/10/1962" and I have the "Jan 1961" calander, that birthday would not show up. I don't care that the birthdate shows up after "date of Expiration" (I.e. If I have the Jan 2099 calendar up, I still want my birthday to show up...just in case I'm still around!?!)

Appreciate any help.

leonhardtk.